A little Though

There are so many things to be done. Can I afford to get bogged down by the small hurdles? No I cannot. Like a phonix I will rise again and again from the ashes and soar to the sky. I am really unfortunate in some of my decissions. I dont regret them,till now i have learnt quite deal from them. One of the truest fact of life is that 'There is no God'. we ourselves are master of our destiny. There is nothing written previously or decided by anybody that this person is going to be like this and he/she is going to face this and this problems.Its so uncertain. And because of this uncertainity people have created God, so that we can think in some bad moment of ours 'God is with me, he will help me'.The creation of God is also because of this purpose and also to maintain some kind of rules in people.If we would not have believe or fear of God we would have done anything under the sun. Because rather than the fear of Law its the fear of God that makes us not doing many-many things.This believe is necessary.Otherwise we will really ruin the rules of living.The teaching of our parents or Teachers are very important for us.I remeber always being told by my parents/teacher ' Dont do this dirty work, God is watching and you will be punished'. This is very true. Not in the sense that God will punish us but because our work only curve our destiny.If I do anything bad I will surely going to get remorse.For example suppose today I kill somebody(Extreme one), I may not be caught by the police and I may not be punished but the remorse I will be feeling will be great. To have a happier life we will have to go by the path that is socially acepted. This is very important for our own happiness(very selfish ha ;-) ).By the norms of society I am not talking about casteism or religion or anything but about the very human values.And one thing is certain there is no rebirth.Whatever u have to live, whatever you have do you have to do in this life only...Thats the truth,You believe or not!!!!
My discovery:-
One of the reason India is underdeveloped is that " We are so much bothered about our Marraiges,Families that we can hardly can work anything productive. For most of us its our aim is to get a good job. And once we get a good job the worry of our parents start 'Get him married'. Consent marriage(Love marraige) is strictly no no. It has to be parents choice.And then the whole family drama will start. This is sick. If someones want to mary somebody then the whole world comes after you. Why marry her? Why love her? She is such a slut!!!. Why you have to marry him? How much is he earning? Which caste he belongs to? No No....Why cant we live in peace? You love somebody marry him. You dont love him say i dont love you.Let our parents allow us to decide for ourselves. Right from what to read to where to go we are really not bound to be told by somebody.They also have so many important things to be done rather than worry about these things...There is a nation to be built ! "
How is my discovery?????